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Excited

A strong positive feeling of anticipation and energy when we are looking forward to something.

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Quick answer

What should I know about excited?

Excited is a normal part of childhood. Children may show it through changes in behaviour, words, body language, or by becoming quieter or more active. A helpful first step is to notice what is happening, name the feeling without judgement, and stay curious about what happened before trying to solve it.

Start with the basics

What is excited?

A strong positive feeling of anticipation and energy when we are looking forward to something.

Notice the signs

How might it show up?

Recognizable from early childhood and often expressed through increased energy, talking, movement, and anticipation.

A thought for parents

What can a parent do?

Help children notice that excitement can feel big in the body too — naming it can help them manage that energy without needing to suppress it.

Try this conversation

A simple way to start

You do not need the perfect words. Try: "I noticed something changed. Do you want to tell me what happened?" If your child does not want to talk, staying available can be enough for now.

When to pause and get more support

You know your child best

If a feeling is unusually intense, persistent, interfering with everyday life, or connected with a safety concern, it is reasonable to talk with a qualified child-health or mental-health professional. You do not have to work it out alone.

A normal part of growing

Is excited normal in childhood?

Very common and frequently associated with play, celebrations, activities, and anticipated events.

Keep exploring

Stories and play

Feelings can be easier to understand when children meet them in stories, play, and everyday conversations.

Common questions

What does excited look like in children?

Recognizable from early childhood and often expressed through increased energy, talking, movement, and anticipation.

How can I help my child with excited?

Help children notice that excitement can feel big in the body too — naming it can help them manage that energy without needing to suppress it.

Is excited normal for children?

Very common and frequently associated with play, celebrations, activities, and anticipated events.

What should I say when my child feels excited?

Start by describing what you notice without judging it. For example: "It looks like you're feeling excited." Then give your child a little space to respond and ask what happened or what they need.