Notice the signs
How might it show up?
Becomes increasingly noticeable as children develop stronger social relationships and begin comparing themselves with others.
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A little parent guide
Jealousy
An uncomfortable feeling that can happen when we worry that someone else has something we want, or that we may be losing someone's attention, love, or place.
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Start with the basics
What is jealousy?
An uncomfortable feeling that can happen when we worry that someone else has something we want, or that we may be losing someone's attention, love, or place.
A thought for parents
What can a parent do?
Help children name the feeling without making them feel bad for having it — "It looks like you wished you had what they have" can open a conversation about the feeling underneath.
A normal part of growing
Is jealousy normal in childhood?
Common in childhood, especially around friendships, siblings, attention, possessions, and comparison.
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Stories and play
Feelings can be easier to understand when children meet them in stories, play, and everyday conversations.